Diesen wunderschönen Brief hat eine Trainerkollegin einem anderen Kollegen geschrieben, der Angst vor dem Scheitern seiner Ehe hat. Ich habe ihn in der Originalfassung gelassen, damit nichts verloren geht.
„Beautifully written A. Thanks for sharing your deepest thoughts and hopes for your relationship, yourself and your family.
Loving unconditionally suggests that you don’t expect anything in return for the love you give … which means that you drop the thought of getting „pleasant energy“ from your wife when you communicate with her. Someone who behaves like that only does so because they too are in deep distress and disconnected from their own loving center. For a woman, that tends to be the lowest emotional spot she can choose to experience.
Your wife has a responsibility AND the power to raise her emotional state when she is ready too.
Loving unconditionally ALSO means that you accept and forgive yourself completely for whatever has happened in the past and I suspect doing that will help you greatly to access your ability to „love and empathise“ again.
You said that you are „…97% resigned to not getting back together with her.“
What if you were now 100% resigned to getting back together and in touch with YOURSELF, your faith, your connection with your past successes and to begin to think and talk only about the things that ARE WORKING in your life.
You also have the power to choose to think thoughts that make you feel DESPAIR about whatever is happening OR to to think thoughts that make you feel HOPEFUL about whatever is happening. It’s gonna happen anyway.
It’s now the perfect opportunity to use your new training skills and be more aware of your FOCUS … what you are thinking about, your PHYSIOLOGY … how you are holding your physical body and your LANGUAGE … the conversations you are having with others.
It’s also time to put the mistakes and regrets from the past, into the past where they belong … your bright future is calling you loudly and will always be there waiting for you to hear the deepest message from your soul, to remind you to find the blessings in each situation, to feel the love of your heartbeat, to hear the clarity of your mind, to know the wisdom contained in your soul.
It calls each of us to remember who we really are … a precious child of the universe (God) whose individual purpose on earth is more profound than we can humanly fathom. ~ ER
When you start to feel better about yourself then you can really contribute to your family and the world again in more meaningful ways. You have an enormous amount to give.
Much love to you,
xoxo Miss P
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